Next, look away for a second and then look back quickly for what I call a flash glance of Carmindy Vision. Did you spot something else that’s extraordinary? Look again. You know it’s there, and so do I. Voila! You’ve found your feature focus. Maybe it’s one amazing asset or several strengths. The important thing is that you’re focusing on what’s fabulous, and you’re on your way!
Now, if you tend to be the “Tough on Myself Champion of the World” and still can’t see with Carmindy Vision, don’t just stand there. Get a second opinion! Ask a loving and trusted family member, “What do you like best about my face?” or ask your best girlfriend to close her eyes and imagine your face. Then ask, “What do you think of first? What makes my face special?” Chances are, people around you have long admired something special about your beauty. Many may have complimented you on it, and you either didn’t hear it or didn’t want to believe it. Instead of being tough on yourself, be tough on negativity. Pay attention to the positive observations of others and believe them.